Should I marry this girlfriend?

I am a 31 year old man who is preparing for marriage.

My girlfriend is my age, and it has been nine years since I met.

I am a public servant and my girlfriend is three times out of college.

I am told that it is a waste of time for me to be 'conditional' in the surroundings, but ... I remember the pure heart and the memories that we have accumulated in the first time when we first met.

By the way, because of the words of my girlfriend in the situation that I am about to get married next year, I have fallen into the worry of "Should I marry this?"

So I am writing to wonder how many women think.

Let me write down what my girlfriend told me.

First, you are not getting married to have a baby. Therefore, I will not have a child for at least five years.

My girlfriend is actually a person who has never been to Alba before age 31, and I have no need to get a job at all until I get my pocket money for my only daughter.
But I do not understand why I do not have a child because of my job or study, and I do not understand the idea of ​​having a child for five years after marriage so that I can enjoy it easily.


Secondly, do not add punishment to my deacons for the time being.

When I was in the fourth year of college, I passed the civil service examination and got 60 million won for six years from my young age. The deacon tried to add that money, but he opposes it.
The reason is that you have a right because you are the money you collected while you were dating.
By the way, my girlfriend does not have any money in the meantime and she will receive 100% of the marriage fee. Do you think women would make sense?
(For your reference, my parents thank you for giving me a home.)

Third, I will go to my housewife only twice in one year. New Year's Day, Chuseok once
My girlfriend 's house is different from my house.
My girlfriend is my only daughter, but my girlfriend does not even get a cake for her parents' birthday and even does not even work on seaweed. However, it is because there is a different style in each house ... I have been buying cake for a long time when I was born and raised in my parents' parents.

But my girlfriend will not take my parents' birthday after marriage. The reason is that you have been living your life for a long time, not to force the filial piety.
This declaration of my girlfriend was a big shock to me who thought that it is natural that it is natural for me to buy a four -
I think it is natural to take all of them together.

My girlfriend was there before I became a public servant, but now I want to find another job other than a public servant.
The reason is that I can not live with my salary.
I receive about 2.1 million won in the amount of the actual work.
Is this the amount that is hard to live like that?
I did not drink cigarettes while I was leaving, but I only spent $ 1,300 a month on my car for six years.
Do you have a lot of money when you get married?

There are so many worries right now ... Do you think the majority of women are like my girlfriend?